Don’t date men who dont do housework/chores until they’re asked.
By that I mean: it is not your responsibility alone to keep track of and manage the household labour and chores.
Do not date someone who expects you to tally and distribute tasks like they’re a child getting chores from their parents.
You should never feel like the parent nagging for chores to be done before playtime in an adult partnership.
Also, don’t date someone who expects a reward for doing their fair share of the chores.